If you’re willing, I’d like to work through this response and would welcome a conversation.

To your first point, I’m suggesting I didn’t respond that way. I don’t have issues with the number of sexual partners. I have my own history and I wouldn’t expect anything from someone that I couldn’t expect of myself. So lots of partners, no partners, it doesn’t matter to me. But I know a lot of guys who use sexual history as a value signal, which I don’t agree with. That was my point.

In terms of being a misogynist, I don’t agree. Some of my closest female friends are/were strippers or sugar babies. I’m not judgemental about how anyone gets through life — a hustle is a hustle. However, when it comes to creating a successful intimate relationship, there needs to be deeper value alignment on whatever values are most important to both individuals.