If you’re willing, I’d like to work through this response and would welcome a conversation.

I agree that I interpreted things differently. I’m close friends with girls who are/were strippers or sugar babies so I have no issues in that respect. However, I internalized the high value of intimacy which affects my perspective.

In terms of protecting her anonymity, I took every measure to eliminate all ties to her on things like my social media before posting. I even waited for all our photos to disappear off of Google from third-party Instagram sites.

I am curious how you interpret this as slut-shaming. The post didn’t pass judgement beyond my personal values. I wasn’t trying to push an agenda, rather I described my experience. Also, as I mentioned, I have friends in the sex industry whom I love. But the point I was making is that, when it comes to creating a successful intimate relationship, there needs to be a high standard for value alignment on things that are important to you.

I’m curious about your perspective of a sugar-baby in being a good woman like your article suggests (https://psiloveyou.xyz/a-good-woman-is-hard-to-be-ccec50feced7). Just based on the conversations I’ve had with my friends in the sex industry, they would never want their daughters to follow in their paths. You suggest that a good woman seeks education, a good job to support her family, and makes sacrifices for motherhood, all of which I echo. Would you also consider a stripper or an escort to be a good woman and an ideal example for their daughter? And to proactively eliminate any further suggestions of slut-shaming, I’m not asking whether one is good and one is bad. Instead, is one good and is one better. A hustle is a hustle and I give my respect to anyone that is working and making a living. But would you not agree that there are levels?