My Girlfriend was on a Sugar Daddy Site — Here’s What I Learned
My mother raised me to treat every woman as if they were my sister. No matter the dynamic of the relationship, from stranger to friend to lover, my mother always enforced the principle that all women deserve to be treated with respect, dignity, and compassion — to treat them with love as if they were my sister.
When I started to date, it was, again, my mother, who had the infamous ‘talk’ with me. To say that the conversation was awkward is a gross understatement; it’s not a conversation that any pubescent boy wants to be having with his mom. She said, and I’m paraphrasing, “Son, I know your dad will screw this up so shut up and listen.” Straight to the point. Unwavering. That’s my mother. Awkwardness aside, it was a pivotal moment in my life; a defining moment that laid the foundation of the sexual values that I would hold.
She was, in my opinion, unnecessarily thorough; she taught me about sexual organs, sexual attraction, dating, and protection. She showed me how a condom worked on a banana, and told me that for my first time, I should probably have a towel ready for bleeding — yikes. Finally, we talked about the value of sex. She told me, “You will never pay for sex. Adding a dollar figure to sex is a sin against intimacy. I have no problems with women who use their sexuality to make a living, but I have…
