Thank you for the insightful response. There is a lot in this to unpack and reflect on in your post.
I think my point of view is more skeptical than yours. You seem very romantically attuned which is a quality I haven’t developed yet. Either a lack of maturity or experience, my perspective on relationships is that we are satisficers. There is a set of criteria that we want in a partner. My criteria were met, but new information changed my evaluation of our relationship. After trying to move past it, I decided to cut my losses.
I hope in the future, I might be the type to evolve and love unconditionally. Again, thank you! You gave me a lot to think about.