Yes, it was her choosing what to do with her time and body. I disagree with her decisions, but I’m not trying to disrespect her right to make those decisions.

I also have the right to choose my intimate partner. For example, I have friends who are strippers and cam girls or people who are politically opposite of me. I respect all of their decisions and love their friendship. But I wouldn’t choose to be in an intimate relationship with them because I think there needs to be more value alignment in a relationship.

As for the comments, that was never my intention. The point I was trying to communicate was to create a strategy and contingency plan before getting into a relationship to proactively define comfort levels.